Being good has cost you enough.

You’re allowed to
want more.

Coaching for women ready to unlearn good girl conditioning, reclaim their humanity, and build lives rooted in aliveness and relationship.

Welcome, I'm Sandi.

I'm a coach for white women because our conditioning is specific, and so is the path to reclaiming our humanity, reconnecting with our inner wisdom, communities, and the natural world.

The journey begins with unlearning the lies taught to us by patriarchy, capitalism, and white supremacy.

I know because I've lived it. I'm walking right alongside you.

I believe that my liberation is tied to your liberation and the liberation of all people. I believe that when white women (me included) unlearn the conditioning that was created to keep us small and compliant, our families, communities, and beyond benefit.

And, I believe that, together, we can build a world that protects, supports, and celebrates all humans.

Ways to work with me

You can unlearn being good.

You were raised in a culture that rewards conformity and disconnection. Unlearning is how you build a life that actually feels like yours.

Your body will guide you back to yourself.

Your body holds truths you were taught to ignore. You can learn to trust them again.

Your aliveness matters.

You deserve a life that makes you feel alive, and what you do with that aliveness shapes the people and world around you.

Sandi held space for me to connect deeply with the truth of who I am and reflected back to me my beauty, abilities, and unique gifts at a time when I felt overwhelmed, incompetent, and deeply inadequate.

— Ruth